For years and years all people of every race, size, sexuality and etc have struggled with self-image. I mean, even I, myself have had some self-image/insecurity issues myself due to some personal issues and I've been trying hard to shove them out of my mind! It is not uncommon but should not be with us everywhere we go. With 97% of Hollywood having most of their stars be all freakishy skinny and oftenly have surgery it is known that Hollywood is one of the main kind of places that causes such self-image expectations.
It is usually seen the most with young teenagers due to teens being forced into middle school, high school, collage, and etc and because we begin to age and change more as time goes on and the years zoo by. Nobody deserves to feel ashamed in being themselves and deserve to feel better whenever they DO act like themselves and need to be respected as they are. Whether you're skinny, curvy, black, white, Asian, Hispanic, LGBT+ or the rest you shouldn't care about what Hollywood may label you as and you should be proud of yourself and ignore those who may try and drag you down and feel like a mess.
Boys don't need to be all big muscled and chick-magnets!
Girls don't need to be all sexy/sexual and get plastic surgery!
Everyone needs to do and be whatever they wish!
Because of such issues innocent, perfectly good people have been shoved into sad, dark places and even brought pain unto themselves and people they love and even if bad enough....ended their lives.
And while I'm not a boy and have 2 older brothers I still don't know what it is that boys do everyday (don't be mad! I'm sorry!) but I'll try my best to be inspirational and help those who are men. Sooo....here it goes!
Boys, who gives a crap or not if you were to be all "rich," "muscled up," "athletic," "popular with the ladies," and/or "preppy?" You're YOU! Be proud of you! I bet that even some of the most handsome, famous men EVER have their own personal issues and wish themselves to be "normal." While men and women insecurities/issues DO differ by a pinch I don't need to know about either gender (or in-between. Yes, call me a piece of "SJW trash" but I am VERY defensive/open/caring and will defend ANYONE no matter gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans, straight, Asian, black, white, and etc! I will standup for people who've been discriminated against/made fun of. I know what it feels like!)
Men are usually the ones who are judged the most and bullied when their gay since with men it can be easier to tell if one is or not whereas with lesbians it's a bit harder. If you're "gay" and have been called the....bad word then ignore them! You can't help but be yourself and you deserve to have more pride and love for yourself! Ignore those who may be anti-LGBT+/homophobic and just be an open book for those who may be like you and also need help with being themselves! If you want to be a feminine boy or a gay boy who is "normal looking" then whatever! If it makes you happy then be and dress however you want! It may be because I'm super sensitive or maybe because I, myself have questioned myself but LGBT+ curse words (you know which words I mean) downright PISS ME OFF!
And trans boys, you're beautiful! Heck, most of you all look prettier than ME (drag queens too. Not gonna lie....)! And girls who may be lesbians, ignore haters! Like gay men, you are often discriminated and used as "sexy sex scenes" in adult movies but know that you are WAAAY more than that! You're beautiful, magical (that counts as a compliment right....?! Ahahaha) and have full-on swag!
And bisexual folks (counting me) you're NOT confused! You're HUMAN! I bet that one person or another has had SOME sort of curiosity towards both sexes and wondered what it'd be like to date the same AND opposite sex. Me, myself have become curious! I've NEVER dated ANYONE or had a first kiss and because of that I've REALLY wanting to see what it would be like to kiss/date both genders and have been attracting a fair amount to both genders as well emotionally and love-related. We're human! Think of how BORING it'd be if 100% of the whole world were to be straight-lines! What about bendy-lines or zig-zag-lines and/or curvy-lines?! Cooler amirite?
Because of such issues innocent, perfectly good people have been shoved into sad, dark places and even brought pain unto themselves and people they love and even if bad enough....ended their lives.
And while I'm not a boy and have 2 older brothers I still don't know what it is that boys do everyday (don't be mad! I'm sorry!) but I'll try my best to be inspirational and help those who are men. Sooo....here it goes!
Boys, who gives a crap or not if you were to be all "rich," "muscled up," "athletic," "popular with the ladies," and/or "preppy?" You're YOU! Be proud of you! I bet that even some of the most handsome, famous men EVER have their own personal issues and wish themselves to be "normal." While men and women insecurities/issues DO differ by a pinch I don't need to know about either gender (or in-between. Yes, call me a piece of "SJW trash" but I am VERY defensive/open/caring and will defend ANYONE no matter gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans, straight, Asian, black, white, and etc! I will standup for people who've been discriminated against/made fun of. I know what it feels like!)
Men are usually the ones who are judged the most and bullied when their gay since with men it can be easier to tell if one is or not whereas with lesbians it's a bit harder. If you're "gay" and have been called the....bad word then ignore them! You can't help but be yourself and you deserve to have more pride and love for yourself! Ignore those who may be anti-LGBT+/homophobic and just be an open book for those who may be like you and also need help with being themselves! If you want to be a feminine boy or a gay boy who is "normal looking" then whatever! If it makes you happy then be and dress however you want! It may be because I'm super sensitive or maybe because I, myself have questioned myself but LGBT+ curse words (you know which words I mean) downright PISS ME OFF!
And trans boys, you're beautiful! Heck, most of you all look prettier than ME (drag queens too. Not gonna lie....)! And girls who may be lesbians, ignore haters! Like gay men, you are often discriminated and used as "sexy sex scenes" in adult movies but know that you are WAAAY more than that! You're beautiful, magical (that counts as a compliment right....?! Ahahaha) and have full-on swag!
And bisexual folks (counting me) you're NOT confused! You're HUMAN! I bet that one person or another has had SOME sort of curiosity towards both sexes and wondered what it'd be like to date the same AND opposite sex. Me, myself have become curious! I've NEVER dated ANYONE or had a first kiss and because of that I've REALLY wanting to see what it would be like to kiss/date both genders and have been attracting a fair amount to both genders as well emotionally and love-related. We're human! Think of how BORING it'd be if 100% of the whole world were to be straight-lines! What about bendy-lines or zig-zag-lines and/or curvy-lines?! Cooler amirite?
But just remember, Hollywood is "fake" and likes to make the unrealistic seem "realistic" and as if being "famous" and/or "popular" is all that's "important" in life when really it isn't! We shouldn't be judging ourselves and others and bring others and even ourselves down! Be positive! Happy! Caring! Friend! And laugh as hard and as MUCH as your like! Be "weird," be "geeky," be "unnatural," be "different," as long as you're happy then nothing else should ever matter anymore! Self-image and the "expected" lifestyles that society tries to shove down our throats needs to end and we should be free (as long as we don't hurt others or yourselves of course!)
So, don't forget that you are FOREVER and EVER and will ALWAYS be loved and cared for 100%! Be happy NEVER sad! Trust me, I believe in you! Honest my friends!
So, don't forget that you are FOREVER and EVER and will ALWAYS be loved and cared for 100%! Be happy NEVER sad! Trust me, I believe in you! Honest my friends!
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